Engagement Tip # 30 – Defusing Emotions During Performance Reviews
Performance reviews can evoke strong and unexpected emotional reactions. And it is natural to react defensively,
- Maintain respect at all times.
- Focus on the facts.
- Give your employee an equal opportunity to give their perspective.
- Give careful consideration to both perspectives.
- Jointly identify options to resolve the issue.
- Jointly agree on a plan of action.
- Follow up with feedback as promised.
It's not realistic to expect a quick resolution to an important performance issue after a single and quick discussion with an employee. If the issue is important enough to discuss, it deserves the effort required to find a win-win resolution. The employee has to understand what needs to change and what actions need to be taken. The employee also needs to feel he or she can count on your leadership support to resolve the issue. A two-way process goes a long way in ensuring that the issue is resolved and a stronger relationship emerges.
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